To resize an image on a Mac in bulk, open the photos together in Preview, select every thumbnail in the sidebar and choose File > Export Selected Images…
The Finder's Quick Action
Select the images, Control-click and choose Quick Actions > Convert Image. Pick JPEG and a smaller Image Size. Preserve Metadata decides whether details such as the location follow the copy, created next to the original.
Photos
Choose File > Export > Export Photos…, set Photo Kind to JPEG and lower the JPEG Quality or the Size. Untick Location Information under Include to keep the place private.
In a new message, the Image Size menu offers Small, Medium, Large or Actual Size, and Message Size shows the result.